This evening, Lisa, Lynne and I did several exercises on values. In the first exercise, we picked the 5 or 6 qualities that we value most in our friends. The second exercise: to pick the 3 or 4 qualities that would cause us to end a friendship, or to avoid a person altogether.
Our choices were surprisingly similar, but Lisa and Lynne and I are very alike in personality. What attributes would you pick?
Then we had alist of some 400 attributes and the challenge was to pick what was most important to us in our lives - either things we already have and value, or things we aspire to. ( Here are my 21 choices... )