Boy-kinks....
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I was about to do something useful (like eat breakfast) but
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I love questions like this. Endless pondering on a subject dear to my heart.
And I think there is no real answer for me, except maybe, "All of the above, and more."
Not that I don't have favourite things. Physically, for example, lean, dark-haired guys with large noses. Think Methos. So then why my fascination with Lex's looks? The way I love his mouth, which isn't usually a kink of mine, and I usually prefer a quite different kind of look?
Okay, the physical doesn't really matter. I have boy-kink BSOs in instances where I don't even particularly like the actor's looks - Ioan Gruffudd, for example. Yeah, I know, everyone says he's gorgeous and he probably is, but I don't particuarly like his looks. It doesnt' stop me from being mad over Horatio Hornblower.
But Tham wasn't asking about looks, she was asking about types. I'm digressing because I don't know how to answer and I want to try.
Yes, I like innocence especially when it is contrasted to the other character's jaded experience. You can see why I love the Clex scenario: Clark is so innocent, so desperately learning about life, so eager to be good. Lex is so worn out and used up emotionally, so hyperintelligent, so ambitious, so angry and conflicted. Perfect.
I also like twisting innocence - not in terms of corruption but in changing expectations of how the innocent would act. One of my beta-readers recently remarked how she's noticed I like to take the young, virginal character and make him aggressive, put him on top, have him dictating to his much more experienced partner. Yup, I love doing that.
With Clark, I love the innocence. With Lex, I love the decadence.
I like writing and reading good banter. Don't get it much.
I like passion: scenes where the guys just can't keep their hands off each other, regardless of risk or circumstances. Conversely, I don't like stories where they can control their passions and willingly postpone sex till a more convenient time or place.
This goes double when one of them is inexperienced and the other isn't.
But I know what my favourite thing of all is, and it's difficult to describe. The scenario I love above all else is when it's heroic - when one does something self-sacrificing, particularly in a psychological or ego-oriented sense, for the good of the other.
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A classic case is the ending of the Professionals slash novel "Heat Trace", and I forgave that novel for a hundred flaws because of that magnificent ending.
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Date: 2003-08-04 02:54 pm (UTC)Me too! I love it. I'm such a sucker: let me fall for a pair of kohl-rimmed eyes and I want every product on the market, every picture of the guy, every multiple viewing I can cram in.
PoTC icon... What a pain it'll be looking for one
What fandoms force upon us!
"Primal cuddliness"
It's the way I see him. I was struggling to find ways of describing it - the sort of unique quality I see in him that I don't see in other heroes, that puts him apart. It isn't just being crafty and eloquent and cute and so on. There's uniqueness to him, and it's soul-deep, not assumed.
The Inner Jack....
Date: 2003-08-04 06:05 pm (UTC)Re: The Inner Jack....
Date: 2003-08-04 06:45 pm (UTC)What a lovely way to put it. Yes. It's what makes Will at the end of the movie call Jack 'a good man' and I really like that. (So, of course, does Jack.) There's a bit of the 'noble savage' about him actually - the 'wise fool' is part of the type, but it's also the person who is outside regular society or civilization, for whatever reason, who becomes better - sweeter - than the normal civilized person because he sees life without the same blind spots.
Re: The Inner Jack....
Date: 2003-08-05 06:46 pm (UTC)I was into the 'wise fool' type once upon a time, as I was a Vila fan, and he was very much the clever fool.
Re: The Inner Jack....
Date: 2003-08-05 07:01 pm (UTC)I was into the 'wise fool' type once upon a time, as I was a Vila fan
Yes - me too - for exactly that reason. I never really liked B7 and can't be said to have been into the fandom, but I liked Vila very much indeed, for that very reason: he was an unusual but ingenious character.
When done right, that kind of hero is endearing and irresistible.
Re: The Inner Jack....
Date: 2003-08-06 09:44 am (UTC)B7 was my first fandom, but I was strictly an A/V girl, didn't care about any of the other pairings. I find I'm often drawn to characters like Vila as the 'sidekick' - not the pretty one, not the flashy or obviously sexy one, but the intelligent, sensitive, often deeper one. One reason I found Bracey so interesting, I think, and Bush.
Re: The Inner Jack....
Date: 2003-08-06 10:06 am (UTC)I don't know if there's a particular pattern to the characters I'm drawn to - usually not the fair-haired, if they're male. I usually give my BSOs the qualitites of being intelligent, sensitive or deep in my fic, but that's subjective, to some extent. Though perception of intelligence is a big deal to me in a hero.
Re: The Inner Jack....
Date: 2003-08-06 08:33 pm (UTC)Re: The Inner Jack....
Date: 2003-08-07 04:35 pm (UTC)That's my take, anyway.
Re: The Inner Jack....
Date: 2003-08-07 06:17 pm (UTC)Re: The Inner Jack....
Date: 2003-08-07 07:24 pm (UTC)Yes, I think we see some rather good character development in Will Turner. There's hope for him yet!