Sunday...

Sep. 3rd, 2006 02:43 pm
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Another day of good things and a bad thing.

The bad thing that happened was that I dreamed I had an ear infection, and then woke up to find I actually had one. The last time I actually remember an ear infection, I was three years old. There was an earache about twenty years ago, memorable only because it existed - I think I had a cold. Well, that's a long time to go without an ear infection. And of course it's a long holiday weekend, no hope of going to a clinic or phoning a doctor. Having total ignorance of the matter of ear problems, I had no idea what to do. Cold compresses? Drops? Leave it alone? Take Aspirin? Exercise? Sleep? I keep just hoping it will go away. Meanwhile, I feel crummy.

The good things are immeasurably good. The first is that [livejournal.com profile] isagel was looking for a 'five things' challenge, and in answer to my request for Five Things Captain Jack Harkness wanted to say to the Doctor, she wrote this.

Now, quite frankly, there's nothing I want more right now than good Doctor Who fanfic, especially if it's about Captain Jack. And she got so exactly the right tone, so exactly the right type of action - and, more important, just the right relationship between the Captain and the Doctor and Rose - well, she has made me a very happy fan indeed. It's a story that shot straight to the heart of my love of the character, and made it better than I could have dreamed. Thanks, [livejournal.com profile] isagel, really. Thanks.

This only days afterI read a lovely piece of Captain-Jack fic by [livejournal.com profile] boji here. And I'm working on a few stories of my own, and thanks to these stories, I feel all the more inspired.

I am in a deeply emotive mood, having just read The Privilege of the Sword by Ellen Kushner. One of those few books in this world that I felt was just about perfect, as if it was written for me. It's a direct sequel to Swordspoint, a fantasy novel set in the district of Riverside, where Richard St. Vire, a champion swordsman and duelist for hire, lives with his lover, a mysterious student named Alec. This picks up Alec's story some years later - I'd have to reread Swordspoint to be sure how many years have passed, and yes, I intend to. There are numerous viewpoints, but the primary one in Privilege is that of Lady Katherine, young niece of the Mad Duke Tremontaine, who is trained as a swordsman in accordance with her decadent uncle's whim, in order to save her family's fortunes. From the back cover: "A well-bred country girl, Katherine knows all the rules of conventional society. Her biggest mistake is thinking they apply." In six months of training in the City, she learns about honour and sexuality and priorities, and a great many things change that can't be changed back. The back cover describes it as "a magical mixture of Dumas and Georgette Heyer", and so it is, and that would be good enough but that isn't what made me love it so. For one thing, there's a subplot about the theatre. Then there's the generous onmisexual viewpoint, the vividly varied characters - my favourites were Tremonatine himself, and the Black Rose, and Lucius Perry, and Kate's mother, and Kate herself - who often seemed younger than fifteen, but who was still delightful. The tone is fairly light, but the story was so perfectly written (as if just for me) that I did not react to it lightly.

I have many favourite scenes, but one I particularly liked was the Black Rose telling the Duke how and where they first met. I also liked the sword-training scenes, and Kate's first kiss, and the scene where Kate confronts the Duke regarding her duel over Artimisia's honour. And many other bits.

Thank you, Ellen Kushner, for far exceeding my hopes and expectations.

Now I must and reread Swordspoint. I think I liked Privilege of the Sword more, but I won't know till I reread, will I? I might add that there is another book by Kushner set in the same world, called The Fall of the Kings, which wasn't as memorable or as powerful in theme, and wasn't enarly as much fun.



Date: 2006-09-03 07:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jhayman.livejournal.com
First of all, ear infections, if it's middle ear infection, in adults can be NASTY BUSINESS. I'd seriously consider calling your doctor to see if there's an on-call number (most of them have an on-call group). Alternatively this would NOT be mis-use of an emergency department, though a walk-in clinic would be better if there's one about. That's the point of walk-ins.

Meanwhile, decongestants (plain Sudafed frex) and pain-killers. Liquids of your choice (not TOO much alcohol!)

Hope you feel better.

Date: 2006-09-03 07:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Thanks for your useful comments, much appreciated. It seems to be bothering me less - if it gets worse, or doesn't go away, I will certain use the on-call group. Thanks for the kind words!

Date: 2006-09-03 07:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dargie.livejournal.com
Once when I had an earache, an elderly black man told me to put a few drops of "sweet oil" into it and then a bit of cotton to hold it there. I tried it and it seemed to work. Basically you can do it with any oil, and olive oil seems to work. Warm it gently by putting it in some hot water (in a bottle or something else watertight, obviously. It should be about the same temp as a baby's formula.

I also hear that lying down with the bad side on something warm like a hot water bottle or compress is supposed to help.

Date: 2006-09-04 01:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Sounds like good advice. I'll give it a try! I do have a hot water bottle around somewhere.

Date: 2006-09-03 10:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] acampbell.livejournal.com
Yikes! Feel better.

I've never had an ear infection, although the girls have, particularly Leah. I remember having to walk her to the doctor one morning in Germany, early, because Girl Scout Camp was starting that day!

Date: 2006-09-04 01:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Thank you! I'm hoping not to have to call my doctor on a holiday... I'll see how it feels tomorrow.

Date: 2006-09-04 12:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] monsieureden.livejournal.com
*pets your ear*

Date: 2006-09-04 01:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Thank you. I'm hoping it will miraculously disappear overnight... the infection, I mean, not the ear itself.

Date: 2006-09-04 01:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] monsieureden.livejournal.com
Hah! Maybe my petting has healing powers.

Date: 2006-09-04 02:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Are you a king in disguise? In any case - healing powers happily accepted!

Date: 2006-09-04 02:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] monsieureden.livejournal.com
I so agree. I think Eden would too.

Date: 2006-09-04 02:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
I've told you, haven't I, about how I had a crush on Charles I as a young kid? Used to stare happily at his portrait whenever my parents would take me to the art gallery - a favourite treat. And it was free in those days. I was a history-and-costume geek even when I was six. But let's call me a young Van Dyck connoissuer, shall we?

Date: 2006-09-04 02:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] monsieureden.livejournal.com
Yes, you certainly did tell me! When we were speaking of Van Dyck, I believe (one of my faves too).

I love Charles I. Obviously, as I feature him heavily in my writing. But I've changed his sexuality quite drastically from anything I've ever read in history. I don't intend it to be viewed as truth, but I hope that someone else will enjoy it as much as I do *g*.

Date: 2006-09-04 02:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Hmm - that sounds like fun. To me, anyway.

Date: 2006-09-04 02:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] monsieureden.livejournal.com
I think it is. I like playing with history, but I do plan to create a major disclaimer. Contrary to Dan Brown, I would never want anyone thinking that I'm writing pure history.

Date: 2006-09-04 04:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Fair enough. It's the works that claim to be history and then twist things around that are annoying. Which Dan Brown is, but his main annoyance for me isn't his use of bad history - which is kind of fun, actually - it's his bad writing style and clumsy plot structure and stupid characters.

You don't need to worry about that.

Date: 2006-09-04 05:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] monsieureden.livejournal.com
I hope not!

Date: 2006-09-04 12:17 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
She's on LJ - you could gush at her directly
http://ellen-kushner.livejournal.com/

Date: 2006-09-04 01:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Thank you for the link!

Date: 2006-09-04 12:30 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] silverwhistle.livejournal.com
Hugs! Get well soon!
Did you get a prezzie from me recently?

Date: 2006-09-04 01:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
A prezzie? Oooh! Maybe in Tuesday's mail?

Date: 2006-09-04 09:29 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] silverwhistle.livejournal.com
A paperback, by Rosetta Loy?

Date: 2006-09-05 01:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
It arrived! How exciting - thank you so much.

Date: 2006-09-05 01:14 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] silverwhistle.livejournal.com
It's a lovely book - an evocative picture of what life there was like in the early 19C. I suspect the author has based it on her own family...

Date: 2006-09-04 02:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jkluge.livejournal.com
The sweet oil, hot water bottle (or, if you don't have one of those, heat a folded wascloth with a couple of drops of water on it in the microwave, the wrap it in a hand towel and put it on your ear. Tylenol or aspirin will help. Decongestants are another good suggestion: many ear infections can actually be cleared up with these simple home and over-the-counter remedies without the need for antibiotics. I've had many earaches in the last ten years go away after a few hours or overnight treatments of this kind -- haven't needed anything stronger since childhood. Doctors are now often recommending these remedies to avoid overuse of antibiotics. Go to the doc, though, if it persists.

Good luck, and I hope you feel better, dear!

Date: 2006-09-04 02:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Thank you for the good wishes and the good advice. I will indeed follow the advice (washcloth compress, oil) overnight and hope for the best.

Date: 2006-09-04 02:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jkluge.livejournal.com
The heat and sweet oil (my doc used to "prescribe" that when I was very little) are to alleviate the pain, and the heat *may* help with a little drainage, but the decongestant is probablty the best thing to actually attack the underlying problem.

Date: 2006-09-04 02:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
I need to dig in my medicine cabinet to find some sudafed or dristan. Hope I don't have to walk over to the drugstore!

Date: 2006-09-04 02:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jkluge.livejournal.com
Maybe maaseru would go for you? I know earaches are very painful.

Date: 2006-09-04 02:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Alas, [livejournal.com profile] maaseru is currently travelling. I'd send the budgies, but they're likely to just go and buy millet somewhere....

Date: 2006-09-04 03:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jkluge.livejournal.com
Selfish birdies!

I'm so sorry -- I hope you find some decongestants in the house somewhere, then, dearie!

Date: 2006-09-04 03:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jkluge.livejournal.com
It's times like these, we wish our pets were more useful, heroic, selfless animals.

Moonshadow is no use, either, except for being beautiful and giving cuddles and lovies (nothing to sneeze at, of course). But she only plays with bugs, for instance, never kills them.

Date: 2006-09-04 03:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tavella.livejournal.com
Kate herself - who often seemed younger than fifteen, but who was still delightful.

It seemed appropriate, though; she was a very sheltered, country-raised 15 year old. And she was very determined, which made up for it.

It was such a relief for Privilege of the Sword to be so good; Fall of Kings was such a disappointment to me.

Date: 2006-09-04 04:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Yes, Kate's background certainly explained the innocent-ingenue she was at the beginning, and to her credit, she learned fast. I liked Kate.

It was such a relief for Privilege of the Sword to be so good; Fall of Kings was such a disappointment to me.

I certianly didn't like it as much as Swordspoint. It seemed comparatively bland, and I couldn't care as much about the issues or the characters. In Privilege, I cared, and then some!

Date: 2006-09-04 03:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] teenygozer.livejournal.com
It's not clear from your post what's causing your ear ache, if it's an infection or if it's caused by pressure from a stuffy head, but do take some decongestants as a precaution to take off some of the pressure.

I used to get a lot of ear infections due to having a problem with wax deep in my ear that didn't come out easily because of the convoluted way my inner-ear is formed. The wax would get dirty, which is what earwax is for -- to capture debris such a dirt from outside the ear and shed skin cells from inside the ear -- but it's supposed to march that debris out of your ear. Instead, it would harden and become very difficult to get out. The next thing you'd know, I wouldn't be able to hear very well, and then I'd find myself with a lovely ear infection. A doctor taught me this as a maintenance method and it's been years since I've had an earache: pour a capful of Hydrogen Peroxide (the inexpensive kind used to pour over cuts, a 3 percent solution) in each ear for 15 minutes about once a month, two or three days in a row, just to fizzle and bubble away the deep wax and the infectious junk stuck in it. You need a little wax in there, so you don't want to, say, do it every day for a week, but for dirty ears that are difficult to clean (because you aren't allowed to go *too* far down the canal with that Q-tip!), a 15 minute lie-down on either side with a capful of hydrogen peroxide bubbling away in each ear is a great way to avoid ear infections. This is also very good to do after a swim to avoid "swimmer's ear" type infections.

I've always thought that pouring warmed sweet oil into the ear was just a way to keep some nice heat on the eardrum for a while, but I wonder if sweet oil can also dissolve wax and help loosen so it can be moved out?

Date: 2006-09-05 01:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Thank you for your insightful comments on my poor suffering ear. Again today it's no better and no worse, and I have an appointment to see my doctor about it in an hour and a half.

I think my ear must be sort of convoluted too - I know in the past both my father and I have had ear-wax troubles, though int he past it's always been dealt with by a doctor before an infection could start. Your Hydropgen Peroxide solution sounds like a good idea.

Meanwhile, I'll see what my doctor says.

Date: 2006-09-04 07:57 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] gem225.livejournal.com
I'm really sorry to hear about the ear infection, and I hope that it goes away soon.

I've started The Privilege of the Sword after lingering happily over a rereading of Swordspoint, and I'm so glad to hear that you love the new book. So far, I love it lots. :-)

Date: 2006-09-04 08:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fajrdrako.livejournal.com
Thank you for the kind words about my stupid ear. I hope it behaves itself soon, too.

I almost wish I'd reread Swordspoint before Privilege, but I'm enjoying doing it the other way around. I think I have a new and renewed appreciation of Alec.

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