The keys to my heart...

[fajrdrako]

What bizarre colouring.

Not true, either, or at least, not entirely true. I'd say I am attracted to people who are unbridled and free. I don't feel most alive when things are uncertain, though I don't necessarily mind uncertainty. I am faithful, I don't like insecurity in those I love, of course the best relationships are lasting ones, and I think about marriage a lot and don't know if I want to try it again. (Love and companionship are different matters.) Of course I need love - doesn't everyone? - but I've learned to live without it.

The Keys to Your Heart

You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free.

In love, you feel the most alive when everything is uncertain, one moment heaven... the next moment hell.

You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change.

You would be forced to break up with someone who was insecure and in constant need of reassurance.

Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.

Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.

You think of marriage something you've always wanted... though you haven't really thought about it.

In this moment, you think of love as something you don't need. You just feel like flirting around and playing right now.

What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

Comments

[widget-alley.livejournal.com]

I was attracted to those with good manners and elegance (ah, how true), also felt most alive when uncertain (also true-- I like the game of the thing moer than I sometimes like the end result), I wanted my lover to think I was interesting and alluring (I am interesting and alluring, no worries there), ...I don't remember quite what the next one was, I think it's the same as yours (which is true, I have issues with needy people), my ideal relationship.. was the same, my risk of cheating was 100% (ouch... not entirely true), I'd treat marriage as "something sacred" (um, no. I have issues with marriage as it's commonly done, too), and in this moment, I think of love as something I can have or not, as I please. Yes, true.

Rather interesting, all around. I like yours.

[fajrdrako.livejournal.com]

Glad you liked mine! I think that these kinds of thoughts and judgements, decisions, are to a large extent dependent on circumstance and experience, and my answers in terms of one relationship would not be the same as my answers in terms of another relationship, where the variables would be different. I think these things should be fluid, even spontaneous - they're too important for preconceptions or convictions.

That being said, time and experience have brought me round to Shelley's attitude to marriage which I absorbed back in my early teens. Full circle.