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Mar. 10th, 2010 11:43 amThis is from Allyra's post on CFS and I thought it was useful to copy:
- THE TEN COMMANDMENTS FOR REDUCING STRESS
1. Thou shalt not be perfect or try to be.
2. Thou shalt not try to be all things to all people.
3. Thou shalt leave things undone that ought to be done.
4. Thou shalt not spread thyself too thin.
5. Thou shalt learn to say “NO”.
6. Thou shalt schedule time for thyself, and for thy supporting network.
7. Thou shalt switch off and do nothing regularly.
8. Thou shalt be boring, untidy, inelegant and unattractive at times.
9. Thou shalt not even feel guilty.
10. Thou shalt not be thine own worst enemy, but thine own best friend.
All of those are difficult for me. I'm not a perfectionist, but there's an inner perfectionist in me that keeps trying to get out, and beats me over the head for non-cooperation.
No, I don't have CFS, I seem to have a lot of parallel symptoms. Probably the effects of scleroderma, and/or Epstein-Barr.